Relationship Drama

Save the drama for yo mama …

This is an update to the preceding post Relationship Quandary …

So in talking all day with them we have come to the conslusion that there is no help in site for them. Or is there? We have almost both sides of the story and things are not looking so grim for the couple after all. They are willing to talk it out and see if they can come to some kind of agreement that works for both of them and at the same time neither of them is willing to hear the DRAMA from the other.

Willingness to talk and work things out not always comes from words said. More times that not action will speak volumes.

My advice .. get together the two of you and get someone of a neutral court to sit in and keep some control and peace in the manner of conversation between you. Work out your differences and speak freely. That is the only way that you are going to get through any of this. Open up and neither of you should be afraid to tell the other that things are on your mind or that you are feeling a certain way. Get everything out in the open and don’t hold anything … even if you think it is unimportant if insignificant … let it out now. WORKing together is what this is all about .. not this he said she said .. you didn’t use the right fork at dinner crap. You are both ADULTS, act like it.