Addictions

I’m dealing with several right now and the worst of them all is the addiction to helping others. I have taken time out of my days for the past few months to help out a friend that seemingly will not take help as it should be received. If you need help from someone who knows more about a particular subject than you do then take that advice. Use that advice and don’t push it aside when that person trying to help you is not around.

Telling someone “Thank You” when they help you out and or saying “I understand” and “You are right” means that you DO get what they are saying and you WILL do what they are advising you to do. NOT take the advice and simply push it aside after they are done helping you and do it your way just to ask them to come back and help you fix it again to put things back to the way they left it in the first place.

These are the people that are addicted to screwing up a good thing. They see that what they are asking for is being worked out and on the flip of a switch they are taking for granted the good advice and help they ASKED for in the first place. STOP SCREWING UP WHAT YOU WANT FIXED WHEN IT IS LEFT FIXED.